Love Story
hey all... been a real long since i last added somethin in here... well.. alot has happened within this period of time.. I taut i cud fall in love again... i told ma self i cud.. gave maself a chance and committed maself into a relationship after all these yrs of ma life... ma first bf.. dreams dreams and more dreams.. i dreamt so much abt how ma love life was gonna be.. how ma relationship was gonna be like.. though i believe in dreams and that they do come true.. i also believe that some dreams are meant to be juz dreams... i guess ma dreams abt this relationship thingey was meant to be of such...All i knew was i neba loved him... i neba did.. i taut i cud.. all ma life, i had loved those(2 of dem that is) who dun love me de way i loved dem.. when a guy was expressin his love for me and tellin me abt how i was always makin him feel better and all... made me think maybe love is not juz abt loving afterall, but its abt being loved... I gave him a chance.. or rather gave maself a chance.. The relationship that started with so much of promises and trust was not as promising as it seemed... To be frank i didn't feel de excitment any girl wud feel when she gets her first bf.. Vani understood that.. (ma super nanbi indeed).. i went thru it hoping i wud love him eventually..(dumb! i noe!)
Well... love was one thing that i first felt for this guy when i was Sec 2.. it was love ppl!!! i noe it... haha.. y am emphasizing this is cos some wud say sec 2 is when we are not matured to realise true love.. but i felt love for the first time for him.. but wat i got in return was rejection! It took me 6 yrs to get over him when this wonderful guy came into ma life.. how and y i fell for him.. till today i really dun noe.. after him.. no one crossed ma mind.. when he told me tat all he got for me is frenship, i appreciated it and life went on... Then this guy came into ma life.. first a co-artist, den a sms pal.. this went on and he expressed his feelings for me.. i told him i dun see things his way... but as days went on.. he kept telling me things no one told me.. showering me with attention that no one did... Which was when i gave in hoping i wud see him the way he saw me, one fine day... But it was not wat i taut it was.. so today i have put him behind me and amd crusin on in ma life as i was b4.. some things are not the same and neba will be.. but i am glad i am moving on smoothly.. Love, i realised is juz something that we should learn how to manipulate or.. it would manipulate u n ur life and make it as devastating as possible...!