KANK

Went to watch a beautiful hindi movie with ma old buddy Nooria on Monday... Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna.... It literally means Never say goo0dbye! Let me now put in words wat i feel abt the movie... Something like my very own movie review.. Now how cool is tat.. okie let us begin... What is marriage to one? Should it be the unison of the hearts or merely the names and of cos the bodies?

When we are at the particular stage of our life, we call it this crossroad... Where we gotta choose this one person whom we wud wanna spend the rest of our life with...(or at least a significant number of years before we look for a family lawyer). So on what base do we marry? is it to simply be married.. (u noe to flaunt the rock on the finger and tell de world i found my idiot!), or is it cos the guy or the gal has been a dear fren for way too long and its time i gave him or her a promotion... as a spouse or life partner.. ( i mean if we are getting old and neither one of us have found the "idiot".. lets be each others idiot!), Or is it cos u badly need someone to share the payment of the home installment, the car loan and all the bills with.... (tok abt financial plannin) or is it cos u wan the one person who can tell from the shade of ya eyes ya feelings and ur emotions, for the one person ya heart will beat for, for the one person who u wake up to look at and in the eyes see ya own reflection, for the one whom u dun wanna go to family court with but renew ya wedding vows again and again all ya life with.... If ya human and u are made of emotions and feelings along with of cos flesh and blood... U wud choose the last one as ya reason... or at least some ppl i noe and i will...

Okie... So u are now married... what is it that u need to ignite the energy in ya relationship? What are the elements essential for the marriage to work out if it was not based on love?
Can sex do the trick? Will juz telling ur husband or wife everyday, (more like a robot than a human) "I love u" mean u are showing them love? Is cooking our spouses fav food day in and day out gud enuff? Wat is it that will keep the flame glowing? And what happens when the kids come in? Do they grow up watching parents who shower not oni them with love or each other with love? Or do they see parents who make them feel in a way responsible for the "it-not working" marriage? Kids tend to be the ones who suffer when parents fall out of their marriage... So wat do we do to make sure the kids do not suffer?
Well... Dun get bored with the questions as these are questions answered in the movie...

Well am not gonna relate de story here... but its a movie u gotta watch and not understand but feel... the key word here is feel.... For ppl who watched it and say that its juz a extra marital affair movie, den i am sorry its ur lost... The movie is more than that... its a lesson for ppl out there who fall in love(or assume their in love) and get married for the wrong reasons! The character potrayal was awesome... For a min i was juz all so confused abt wat i felt for them... it got me thinking... What caused the characters to make such moves...? Whose fault was it..? And yeah i cried as usual like i always do for all Karan Johar movies...

Now i gotta mention abt Karan Johar... No matter what ppl say abt what kind of person he is(he is gay and all, i mean i know of gays who are...argh... forget it!), he knows the type of people who will watch his films... he noes which string to pull to get ppl to think while enjoying de show... He did it in all the movies in his 'K' series... and it worked for him once again in KANK!Beautiful picturisation, fantastic music, excellent casting... and most importantly. the story he chose... sensitive yet st from the lives of some or others.... though it was a sensitive and controversial topic... it made sense.... I do not agree that extra marital affairs are acceptable, esp when not juz ur spouse but ur kid is also involved, but instead of crying abt it after it happens, prevent it... That de moral of the story...

Its all abt marry oni the one u love... not the one u think u love or the one u think u can love... Well i do agree not everyone can marry the one they love... and when u dun, dun let time do the magic... the magic is in ur hand... do wat it takes to make ur marriage work... analyse it... and work on it... This is wat the movie has to say!...

I love the movie and i loved the characters! Kudos to KJ and his crew!

The birthday party...

Well... I had a blasting birthday.. thanks to all de wonderful ppl in ma life... I thank ma family for being so supportive, ma colleague bro iskandar for all de trips he made with me to buy my things and collect things from Geetha's place and all, Geetha for lending me the cooler, Dimas for following me for ma suit shoppin, Vanitha and Radhika for comin with me to East Coast umpteem times to book ma chalet and all... Vasu uncle and family for beng another family of mine and doing this birthday like it was their daughter or sister's birthday.... And all who came to grace that evening... Thank you so much!!!!

Well.. Its official den... I am 21!!!!

Big day comin soon...

Okie... De big day is nearing and i am feeling so tired with all the preparations... HAving classes on all the days this week.... But i skipped the one yesterday to go and make more purchases for Saturday... Lucky me.. DImas was such an angel she followed me to Jurong Point to buy my suit and den we went over to IMM to buy more things... It was a gud time for catchin up as we spoke abt havin a family, how boys are morons whom we cant leave without... Our cardiac days, simply life... Thanks babe for the great evenin... So now back to ma party.... It nearing and i am fallin sick.... Gosh!


Okie lets see what i have done so far...

1. I got my bbq pit booked and paid for

2. I managed to get a chalet relatively near my bbq pit... But this chalet is not opened for all!

3. I got to finalise my buffet menu with Vasu Uncle...

4. I have bought most of the things i need for that day.

5. Have done the "marketing" for the food...

6. Bought ma Suit...

7. Ordered Satay and Otah Otah

8. Ordered my cake

What am i left with to do:

1. I got to collect the ice container and drink dispenser from Geetha

2. Get the tents from Iskandar annan and my anni.

3. Bug ma sis to get the radio and burn all the songs by tomolo!

4. Buy chicken, sweet corn, strawberries and a lil bit of the cookin ingredients

5. Discuss with Kesu, how i am gonna transport my family and all the things over to ECP

6. Finalise my manpower for that day.

7. Buy strings and balloons.

Gosh... alot more to do and i still got 4 lectures and 1 tuition this week.. oh god pls gimme the strength to complete this week....